Cancer Astrology June 21 - July 22
Cancer Strength Keywords:
- Loyalty
- Dependable
- Caring
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Adaptable
- Responsive
Cancer Weakness Keywords:
- Moody
- Clingy
- Self-pitying
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Oversensitive
- Self-absorbed
Cancer and Independence:
Cancer is the astrology sign that is packed
full of contradictions so when it comes to independence, they possibly can or
can not be independent. On one side, they have the perseverance and drive to do
what needs to be done, they are self-sufficient and do not need to depend on
other people for the material and physical things in life. On the other hand,
they depend on people for emotional support and encouragement. A Cancer that is
not fully self-actualized will need the constant support of others and will not
be very independent but the Cancer that is 'evolved' and has properly harnessed
their emotional issues will be wildly successful as an independent human being.
They crave attention and comfort from other people and they are happiest when
they have a small, close knit group of friends or family.
Cancer and Friendship:
Cancer is extremely loyal to those who appreciate
and support them, they are the nurturer of the zodiac and will protect and
cherish the person for a long time. One of the greatest things about Cancer is
their ability to make others feel good about themselves and loved. This is
because instead of doing this for themselves, they project this onto other
people. This is a positive cycle because in making others feel nurtured, wanted
and loved, they in return feel good for making someone feel good. Other people
can lean on and depend on cancer, they will listen to people's problems and help
them however they will rarely express their own deep feelings to anyone. People
who want to share deep emotional thoughts and opinions with a Cancer might feel
that the scales are tipped on one side for cancer will rarely reveal it's true
deep feelings. A friend of Cancer is usually a lifelong devoted friend that can
be trusted.
Cancer and Business:
Once cancer resolved their emotional issues such as
shyness and insecurity, the powerful character will shine though, there is
practically nothing they can't do. They have incredible perseverance and will
stand up for what they believe in. With their strong intuition, sensitivity,
powers of observation and intelligence, they will have great success in anything
they undertake. They are excellent business people and investors because of
their intuitive and psychic ability and their creative forward thinking mind,
they are able to predict future trends. They attract wealth very well and know
where to invest. Money and financial well being is very important to Cancer and
this can help their drive in business. They need financial security and if they
allow themselves to properly focus their energy and do not allow their emotions
to over take them, they are more then capable of obtaining their financial goals
and being incredibly successful business people.
Cancer Temperament:
They are complex, fragile, unpredictable and
temperamental and need constant support and encouragement, more then any other
astrology signs, Cancer needs to be needed. Even when all needs are satisfied,
they can be irritable and cranky. They have an uneasy, delicate temperament. The
contradictory nature of Cancer gives their temperament the wild mood swings and
possible temper tantrums. They are easily offended and will sulk and wallow in
self pity for a long time when they get hurt.
Cancer Deep Inside:
It is difficult for cancer to open up and have a
close emotionally fulfilled relationship with someone because they are so closed
off emotionally and physically to the world. This is driven by their fear of
trust, Cancer has a difficult time trusting people. This causes built up anger
and resentment inside, the contradictory nature really takes a toll on them and
they can have a negative outlook on life, thinking that life is just too hard
and miserable. This is unfortunate because when good experiences are to be had,
they are skeptical of people and their surroundings and they experience tunnel
vision due to their depressed outlook and they miss the nice things and happy
experiences in life that make it worth living. In addition to lack of trust for
people, Cancer is deeply sensitive and easily hurt, this is other reason why
they have their defense shell in place, to avoid being hurt by others. Cancer
lives in the past. They hold past events close to them and often dwell on the
past. They have to learn to let go and live in the present instead of spending
their time being sick with nostalgia. Cancer has a lot of emotional issues to
deal with but once they overcome this large hump of shyness and insecurity,
there is practically nothing they can't do. With their strong intuition,
sensitivity, powers of observation and intelligence, they will have great
success in anything they undertake. Cancer is constantly feeling, feelings and
emotions are hallmarks of this sign and this is the root of their problems,
human beings are not as evolved in the emotional area and this is where cancer
gets the brunt of their problems. They are the ones who have to cope with their
strong feelings more so then any other sign. Once properly harnessed, there is
nothing that is this powerful astrology sign can not accomplish. Harmony is very
important to Cancer, it keeps them happy. Conflict of any kind causes great
distress. Deep inside, Cancer is a very powerful sign, they have the ability to
stand up for what they think is right and they have lots of perseverance and can
be fine on their own provided they don't let their emotions get the better of
them and have the stability they need. They are not fond of change but they have
the ability to do what needs to be done, they are not pushovers or lazy people.
Cancer in a Nutshell:
Cancer is a mysterious sign, filled with
contradictions. They want security and comfort yet seek new adventure. They are
very helpful to others yet sometimes can be cranky and indifferent. Cancer has a
driving, forceful personality that can be easily hidden beneath a calm, and cool
exterior. The crab is Cancer's ruling animal and it suits them well, they can
come out of their shell and fight but they can also hide in their shell of
skitter away back into the depths of the ocean. They are very unpredictable.
With cancer, there is always something more that meets the eye, for they are
always partially hidden behind the shell. They are a have a deep psyche and
intuitive mind that is hidden from the world. Cancer is deeply sensitive and
easily hurt, this might be why they have their defense shell in place, to avoids
being hurt by others. They are nurturers so they surround themselves with
people, whom after a while can offend or hurt a cancer without even knowing they
did so, therefore Cancer's protective shell keeps them safe from hurt. They are
complex, fragile, unpredictable and temperamental and need constant support and
encouragement, more then any other astrology signs, Cancer needs to be needed.
When cancer gets the support it needs, it has a tremendous amount to offer in
return. When cancer gets offended, they tend to sulk instead of confronting the
persons face to face. This needlessly prolongs the pain and suffering. Cancer is
very possessive, not just with material possessions but with people as well.
Cancer will always want to stay in touch with old friends and anyone who has
ever been close to them, because it is easier to maintain a friendship then
attempt to learn to trust a new person. It is easier this way for them
emotionally. If you befriend a Cancer, you will stay friends for a long time.
Cancer makes the perfect mother, this is the sign that represents motherhood.
They have unconditional love and caring more so then any other astrology sign.
Cancer are very intuitive. Most of the psychics of the world are Cancer
astrology signs. They have an excellent memory and are very observant and can
read people very well. They can usually tell of other people's intentions are
good or not. Never dupe a Cancer, they can see your motives. Cancer has a lot of
emotional issues to deal with but once they overcome this large hump of shyness
and insecurity, there is practically nothing they can't do. With their strong
intuition, sensitivity, powers of observation and intelligence, they will have
great success in anything they undertake.
Cancer Love, Sex and Relationships
What it's like to date a Cancer Woman:
The Cancer woman is a very
sensual woman with deep emotions and passion brewing underneath the exterior. To
reach these will require time, patience and tenderness. Do not expect to have
her open up to you right away and jump into a relationship. She will not make
the first move and will not be forward with you, you have to do all the work. Do
not try to lead her on because Cancer woman is very in-tune with a persons
motivations and she will see right through you. Trust is the single most
important thing to Cancer. If you ever betray her trust, you might as well move
on. She needs love and security. Cancer is the perfect woman for the man who
loves to sweep a woman off her feet with romance. She is sensual, sweet and
flirty and you two will engage in a gentle, flirtatious dance together while the
relationship builds. Once there is a solid, secure foundation, the richness of
the relationship will emerge. She is old fashioned, feminine and sensual and
patient, if you are the man who can give her what she wants, a relationship with
a Cancer woman is wholesome and rewarding and can last a lifetime.
What it's like to date a Cancer Man:
The Cancer man will not be direct
with you. He will approach you cautiously and slowly. He will be very romantic
and flirty and attempt to court you and win your heart with lavish gifts and
attention. The reason he will never be direct with you is that he has a strong
underlying fear of rejection. Of you are interested in a Cancer man, you will
probably have to make the first move and ask him on a date. He falls in love
easily and will make you his whole world. Once you "belong to him", he will hold
on to you and can become quite jealous and possessive. This is because he is
worried he will lose you to another man and that would crush his spirit. He
needs you to be loyal and faithful for he is the same, in a strong and close
relationship, Cancer men are the most loyal of the astrology signs. They make
excellent lovers for the tender woman who loves romance and being swept off her
feet. Cancer is very affectionate and thrives on holding hands all the time, and
constant physical contact as he absorbs the situation and experiences with his
feelings. The cancer man is all about feeling. He might not show it however and
might portray a calm and cool exterior but underneath, he feels deeply and
intensely. Cancer men are easily offended so do not jokingly make fun of them
for they will take offense and get hurt, but once again, this will not be known
to you. He will simply sulk on his own while he tries to figure out and dissect
what you said. Cancer men are excellent male protectors, they are like the
knight in shining armor. If you are the kind of woman that likes being looked
after and cared for, and loves affection and devotion, this romantic, sensual
man is perfect for you.
How To Attract Cancer:
You must be direct, Cancer will not. Let your
feelings for them be known, this is the first step to initiating a relationship
with a Cancer. This way, will not have to risk rejection, one of their biggest
fears. If you are looking for a short fling, be straight with them. Do not lead
them on to thinking there is long term commitment is there is none because you
will hurt these emotionally delicate people. Trust is the most important. Build
trust with them and they will gradually get closer to you. Give them approval
and compliments but be careful because they will easily sense when you are
complimenting them just for the sake of it. Be sincere. Ask Cancer for advice,
share your problems (but don't burden them), they enjoy helping people and
giving advice. They like culture and lavish experiences. Take them to a play or
museum and a fancy, upscale restaurant. Do not force Cancer into a relationship
or make them make a decision on the spot. They will shy away from you. Have
patience, this is the key to attracting a Cancer. Be physical with them, they
love genuine affection. They are very cautious and as time passes, they will
slowly grow closer to you and you will have wonderful, fulfilling relationship.
Cancer Erogenous Zone:
The greatest erogenous zone for Cancer is the
chest and the breasts. Both women and men respond well to light sucking and
kissing of the nipples. You must caress these areas delicately and softly. Never
be rough. Stroke your fingers through Cancer man's chest hair, lightly and
gently this will ignite the firey passion hidden behind the shell
Sex With Cancer:
Cancer is very physical. Expect sex with Cancer to be a
fully encompassing sexual experience. Lots of tender foreplay, massages
afterwards, candles lit by the bedside, soft music in the background, delicious
scented potpourri, everything to appeal to all senses. It will be delicate and
passionate and an experience you won't soon forget. To not expect too much
novelty and experimentation because Cancer is a very conservative sign. Some
Cancer people might be willing to try something new but they will never be the
ones to suggest it, you have to or it will never happen. They might go along
with your idea because they do enjoy new experiences. Make them always feel safe
and secure when trying anything new and they might love it and incorporate it
into your regular sex life.
